U got u babe!
Don’t ever let loneliness exist in your life. It’s an ugly, unnecessary feeling. I am not saying seek relationships. I am in fact, saying the opposite. I’m saying never forget that you have you. And even more so, you have God. In all actuality, that’s more that’s enough.
Think b4 u let it go!
Sex feels good; when everything around it is right. Your mind, your body, his mind, his body, the pace, the relationship. Don’t short yourself on any of these things. I did and I regret it. Its one of the worst mistakes I made, mainly because it’s so irreversible. I got over it but still, I can’t go back. It may seem hard, lame or impossible but you should challenge yourself to wait. I wish that I would have saved myself for marriage. I imagine that it would have been the proudest and, most special moment ever. Sex makes your emotions go crazy, not just the good ones but all of them. So be careful with the only body you have. Virginity is sacred. Last but not least always protect yourself.
Be too cool for drugs.
I was. I am. Seriously, don’t do drugs! You’ll hear this a million times. That’s for a reason. Drugs can cause all types of unnecessary and irreversible problems. You are too good for drugs. Indirectly and directly drugs have only affected my life in negative ways. Care too much about your health, safety, beauty, friends, family future and reputation to do drugs.
Take full advantage.
Scholarships, opportunities, jobs travels, relationships. I took advantage of a lot. I bet though that I let some things knowingly or unknowingly pass.
Believe in God
I know Him today in a true way and have learned to recognize his blessings. God is real and He is amazing. Of all things that Iteach you, I leave this one the most unexplained but I pray that you can find Him for yourself and just trust me on this one. God lives and life without him is virtually impossible.
Grand Opening
Dear Daughter,
Try your best to make sense of the this. I tried to write when my mind was clear and I felt my advice was best. But, I bet that sometimes when I write, my mind will be clouded. Trust though that somewhere in everything that I've written are words that'll get you thru.
Love MOM
